Ten years ago I was overwhelmed with the sense of wonder at holding my hours-old grandchild, Kaley Marie Jackson, looking at her angelic face, her perfect little hands, and her eyes as they opened to light and noticed things around her for the first time.
She exhibits the same sense of wonder and joy as she explores things now. She is interested in just everything, soaks up knowledge, delights in God’s world, and shows apppreciation and excitement when she learns something new. As a former teacher, I delighted in this awareness in my students. It was more than my salary in meaning to me.
Too many, I fear, take life for granted. Is it the distraction of busyness? Is it that we prioritize things into the important, the immediate, the appearances that we fail to allow excitement or discovery? Even as Kaley opened her presents last night, I saw the adults’ concerns about picking up the wrappings, getting on to the next present, and rushing the recipient into the next gift when she merely wanted to examine with intense interest the one she just unwrapped. This is not meant to be critical. It is merely a habit we older people allow to happen.
In a meeting, we fail to listen to opinions because we’re eager to get to the next item on the agenda. We get absorbed in a conversation about what we want to say instead of honestly interpreting what the other person expresses. We can’t wait for the next iteration of technology to come out, while we oh so recently delighted in the phone we have when it was new. We forget how thrilled we were when we got the job we wanted when we’re in the trenches trying to accomplish what were previously exciting goals. Now they are merely tasks to be completed minus the original excitement in accomplishment.
I’ve been reading Ecclesiastes lately. It discusses the process of looking at life. Is it merely passage of time and generations? Is it life without meaning? Is all mere vanity or unimportant? I’d like to think not. I would like to live life victoriously, enjoying each day, enjoying each day’s sunrise, noticing that no two are ever alike. I’d like to taste the difference between salty bacon and runny yellow egg on my breakfast plate. I’d like to hear the sweet peeps of newly hatched cardinals and the midnight croak of the frog in my lily pond. I even acknowledge the pain of eighty-year old joints and delight in the wrinkles on my lover’s face, knowing that our aging bodies have served us well and that we appreciate their service.
Today, may we recognize that to stop and smell the daisies is not a mere saying. It is lifeblood. We must learn to treasure even the mundane, because it is sure evidence that God is in His heaven, and at least some things in His control, not man’s, are perfect and worth celebrating.
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A career teacher, with forty years of teaching language arts/English, Betty Jackson enjoys wordsmithing, writing, and reading as a vocation and avocation.Retirement is her "age of frosting," a chance to pursue postponed hobbies with gusto. She especially sends kudos to the Space Coast Writers Guild members for their encouragement and advice. Her five books, It's a God Thing!, Job Loss: What's Next? A Step by Step Action Plan, and Bless You Bouquets: A Memoir, And God Chose Joseph: A Christmas Story, and Rocking Chair Porch: Summers at Grandma's are available at Amazon.com. Ms. Jackson is available to speak to local groups and to offer her books at discount for fundraising purposes at her discretion. She and her husband soon celebrate their 47th anniversary, and have lived in New York, New Jersey, Iowa, and now the paradise of Palm Bay, Florida. Their two grown children and daughter-in-love, all orchestra musicians, and our beautiful granddaughters Kaley and Emily live nearby. Hobbies, and probably future topics on her blog: gardening, symphonic music (especially supporting the Space Coast Symphony Orchestra as a volunteer and proud parent of a violinist, a cellist, and an oboist), singing, book clubs, and co-teaching a weekly small-group Bible study for seniors. She volunteers and substitute teaches at Covenant Christian School, and serves as a board member of the Best Yet Set senior group at church. Foundationally, she daily enjoys God's divine appointments called Godincidences, which show God's providence and loving kindness.