With all the negatives oppressing our psyches each day, I submit we who know Christ need to become salt and light. In other words, we need to add the zest and beauty which encourages others.
I know in my heart I need to visit sick friends. I find it very difficult to do so. Perhaps it’s not my gift. I do not readily show compassion and can easily become depressed when I encounter the sadness of illness, especially if the prognosis is not optimistic.
However, I find it within my capabilities to show encouragement. One of my favorite things to do is to create little nosegay bouquets from cut garden flowers and greenery. I put together several stems, wrap a wet paper towel and aluminum foil around the stems, stick the whole bouquet through a paper doilie, and tie it with a bright ribbon. Then I deliver these to people, usually in church, who are recovering, or who have faced difficulties that week, or just seem to need a bit of encouragement.
The whole process takes about ten minutes but brings inevitable smiles, thank you’s and brightens others’ days.
The salt part is easy for me too. I love to provide meals for families in need, or to entertain. It’s an encouragement to our small group of seniors, several of whom are in compromised health situations, if I can provide lunch before our weekly covenant group meeting in our home. I can’t afford to do it often, but when we do casually get together over a meal, as we will do this Wednesday, it allows for informal conversation and a feeling of well-being is the result for all.
A third encouragement is sending cards. Hallmark and other companies have finally learned that many suffer from chronic conditions, such as cancer, and need bright moments while they are undergoing treatment. It’s an easy thing to send a card to such a one on a routine basis, so these loved ones know others care about their struggles.
So, if this short blog is an encouragement for you to become an encourager, then I too am encouraged!
A career teacher, with forty years of teaching language arts/English, Betty Jackson enjoys wordsmithing, writing, and reading as a vocation and avocation.Retirement is her "age of frosting," a chance to pursue postponed hobbies with gusto. She especially sends kudos to the Space Coast Writers Guild members for their encouragement and advice. Her five books, It's a God Thing!, Job Loss: What's Next? A Step by Step Action Plan, and Bless You Bouquets: A Memoir, And God Chose Joseph: A Christmas Story, and Rocking Chair Porch: Summers at Grandma's are available at Amazon.com. Ms. Jackson is available to speak to local groups and to offer her books at discount for fundraising purposes at her discretion. She and her husband soon celebrate their 47th anniversary, and have lived in New York, New Jersey, Iowa, and now the paradise of Palm Bay, Florida. Their two grown children and daughter-in-love, all orchestra musicians, and our beautiful granddaughters Kaley and Emily live nearby. Hobbies, and probably future topics on her blog: gardening, symphonic music (especially supporting the Space Coast Symphony Orchestra as a volunteer and proud parent of a violinist, a cellist, and an oboist), singing, book clubs, and co-teaching a weekly small-group Bible study for seniors. She volunteers and substitute teaches at Covenant Christian School, and serves as a board member of the Best Yet Set senior group at church. Foundationally, she daily enjoys God's divine appointments called Godincidences, which show God's providence and loving kindness.