My calendar has been stacked since last Tuesday. I’m just now able to come up for air. I thought retirement meant time to savor experiences rather than stack them one on top of each other in a huge pile like the one I’m tackling in this post.
My priorities include, in this order: God, family, church activities, writing, music, reading, then the mundane house stuff and other relationships.
This week, all of them claimed my “undivided” attention. It’s been a whirlwind. Let me release the torrent and encirclements, and thank God for the strength which got me through it all reasonably unscathed.
I meet early Tuesday mornings with a group of church ladies called Praying Magnolias. We care about and with each other, meeting at 6:30 a.m. at Cracker Barrel. There we interact with each others’ lives, pray for those who need supplication and intercession, then go about our other activities. From there last Tuesday I went to church to help facilitate a women’s study group Beth Moore study, then to tutoring students at Covenant Christian School. These are weekly opportunities I treasure.
Wednesday is babysitting day with our granddaughters, Kaley and Emily. Kaley is a delightful two-and-a-half year old, and Emily is two months. What a delightful time when we get to spend our special time with them. But this week, because of our kids’ involvement in Space Coast Symphony Orchestra, we had them Thursday night, and Saturday afternoon and evening.
Wednesday afternoon I accompanied an ailing friend to an appointment with her neuro-surgeon. What was supposed to be a short consultation took four hours after he was called to an emergency at the hospital.
Thursday afternoon is our Covenant group meeting for several hours. These are dear friends in the Lord who study the Bible together and do life together. My husband and I lead the group and interact pretty much daily with these folks.
What little time I had on Friday was spent putting together materials for the Space Coast Writers Conference for all day Saturday. I made two book baskets, prepared brochures and business cards for my book selling table, and negotiated with PayPal most of the day so I could accept credit card sales.
I learned a great deal from interacting with other writers all day at the concert, from attending workshops and presentations, and from seeing what others are writing. I also managed to sell some books and get my name out there. Marketing is not my forte, but I’m learning.
The concerts were marvelous. NASA films were background for the magnificent performances of Gustav Holst’s The Planets. What a marvelous pairing of visual and auditory. Overflow audiences enjoyed the experience. I delighted that my granddaughter enjoyed every minute of the concert, especially listening to Mommy and Daddy and Aunt Nancy as they played the beautiful music. No question that music is in her genes.
Then yesterday I had nursery duty with the two-year-olds at church. Such enthusiasm these little ones bring to every little event and experience. It’s refreshing. Then off to the second performance of the Symphony some fifty miles away. As volunteers, we help the Symphony to survive in this day when the group is operating on a short shoestring.
OK. So that’s the story of the week. This one might be a bit easier, although who knows the future? Tutoring today and tomorrow, women’s things tomorrow, babysitting Wednesday, and then we’ll see. Maybe retirement which gives me these options isn’t so bad after all.
A career teacher, with forty years of teaching language arts/English, Betty Jackson enjoys wordsmithing, writing, and reading as a vocation and avocation.Retirement is her "age of frosting," a chance to pursue postponed hobbies with gusto. She especially sends kudos to the Space Coast Writers Guild members for their encouragement and advice. Her five books, It's a God Thing!, Job Loss: What's Next? A Step by Step Action Plan, and Bless You Bouquets: A Memoir, And God Chose Joseph: A Christmas Story, and Rocking Chair Porch: Summers at Grandma's are available at Amazon.com. Ms. Jackson is available to speak to local groups and to offer her books at discount for fundraising purposes at her discretion. She and her husband soon celebrate their 47th anniversary, and have lived in New York, New Jersey, Iowa, and now the paradise of Palm Bay, Florida. Their two grown children and daughter-in-love, all orchestra musicians, and our beautiful granddaughters Kaley and Emily live nearby. Hobbies, and probably future topics on her blog: gardening, symphonic music (especially supporting the Space Coast Symphony Orchestra as a volunteer and proud parent of a violinist, a cellist, and an oboist), singing, book clubs, and co-teaching a weekly small-group Bible study for seniors. She volunteers and substitute teaches at Covenant Christian School, and serves as a board member of the Best Yet Set senior group at church. Foundationally, she daily enjoys God's divine appointments called Godincidences, which show God's providence and loving kindness.